On intuition and quasi-goals

I've written about the "gift" of insomnia before. I feel somewhat facetious in writing this, because honestly, being awake from 2:30 to 5:30 am this morning certainly did not feel like a gift. And yet, waking up this morning and writing in my journal as openheartedly as I did this morning was something that I… Continue reading On intuition and quasi-goals

Fight-or-flight? I’m choosing to flee, literally and metaphysically

It's been almost two weeks since I've blogged. I had actually drafted three different posts over the weekend, but ultimately deciding against publishing them. It has been a busy week at work. I had a work-related nightmare on Tuesday night/Wednesday morning, so that's a good sign that I am clearly not mentally checking out when… Continue reading Fight-or-flight? I’m choosing to flee, literally and metaphysically

On vulnerability

Being vulnerable doesn't get any easier, no matter how many times we confront our fears, or are forced to. Perhaps I feel this way because I am still new to the world of putting myself "out there." As I've written before, I didn't grow up in a household where achievements were blasted to the entire… Continue reading On vulnerability

With a change in scenery…

Tomorrow will mark one week since Mr. Rafia and I have moved into the new place. All the boxes have been unpacked, our items neatly (for the most part) stowed away. I actually have room to store all my belongings in my closets and cupboards. Buh-bye, oversized Kohl's bags! Although I did save a few… Continue reading With a change in scenery…

I bought myself a domain & other things

You may have noticed that my URL has changed. As of this morning, Cake & Cows's permanent home address is now officially cakeandcows.org. I know .ORGs are typically reserved for non-profit organizations, but why are .COMs accepted as the default? Don't they signify companies? In that case, I'd much rather be an organization, Canadian socialist… Continue reading I bought myself a domain & other things